How to "Sell" the DSM / Diagnosis
Many people fear visiting a therapist or seeing a counselor due to the looming possibility of receiving a diagnosis which may place them or their reputation at a disadvantage in the long run. This tends to leave people searching for therapists who do not diagnose (usually these are the therapists who do not take insurances).
It is easy to stay away from counseling agencies and therapists. It can be pretty easy just pretending there is no problem. It is easy to start believing that there is nothing wrong.
To put things into perspective, having a "mental disorder" just means something is going wrong. Something is off in one's life. The truth is, working on that without help is hard, really hard.
Can you think of anyone who doesn't have anything going wrong?
Why do therapists diagnose?
For one, it provides a means for insurance agencies to offer coverage, which, in turn, means payment on the therapist's behalf. This is good for everyone! A happy therapist is a motivated therapist! (Sarcasm.) In all actuality, whether your session is pro bono or paid, it is an ethical requirement to hold the client's best interest at heart.
Secondly, it is a way for the mental health world to communicate, much like medical terms for doctors and nurses. Or HTML5 for coding geniuses!
Lastly, it offers a common understanding of treatment. Treatment is the key word there. You know, the thing a client is looking to receive! It provides a starting point with goals. It offers hope.
Considering transparency, veracity, and having a genuine nature are key elements of therapy; counselors coming to an agreement with the client about diagnosis is not unheard of. This can take place while the counselor filters other diagnoses that meet criteria. This is done naturally and with compassion by the counselor describing what they are seeing.
For others, counseling may be much desired and offered as a free service through their employer. This service is termed an EAP. This service grants a handful of counseling sessions, leaving the client wanting to continue but not able to afford it. At least that is the belief.
Many agencies offer a Sliding Fee Scale which is based on the clients income. Some even offer free counseling referenced as charity or when a client is in hardship.
So why would they / you come back after the EAP? Answer: because now there is hope. After a handful of sessions, the client begins to see the power that exists within therapy. They find hope in the process and in themselves.
The therapist conveys and establishes care, trustworthiness, and safety. Clients begin to feel understood, when before they did not. When the clients' conflicts are relayed back to them, a connection is created and fostered.
The conversion from EAP to long-term sessions
occurs when feelings are articulated, a course is charted, and hope is offered. The fear of going too, far too fast begins to diminish when both parties stop pretending there isn’t a problem.
It may seem simple. It may even feel awkward.
This is the way of the diagnosing culture . A diagnosis is not a stigma or symbol of ‘other’. A diagnosis offers clarity, progress, and hope.
Geries Shaheen is a Provisionally Licensed Professional Counselor operating in and around St. Louis Missouri. Geries teaches psych classes as an Adjunct at Saint Louis Christian College and offers Adolescent/ Family Therapy through Preferred Family Healthcare . Geries holds his BA in Intercultural Studies from Lincoln Christian University, and his MA in Professional Counseling from Lindenwood University. Holding a certificate in Life Coaching, Geries provides life coaching services to clients online throughout the nation.
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